Thursday 29 March 2018

Don’t Sacrifice Every Thing on the Altar of Your Certificates. Part 1



The tragedy of the educational system is that academic excellence is everything. From childhood, we are programmed to believe that just by scoring higher marks we’ll have a brighter future, more likely to be richer, successful and celebrated. Many of us got up to the rude awakening that mere academic excellence does not necessarily guarantee success, wealth or fame.

The Education System does NOT prepare people for life. The Education System prepares people for jobs. When life happens, your certificate will not save you. That's why you need to prepare yourself for life - invest in your mind, read the right books, associate with the right people, attend seminars/workshops, work on yourself daily, love God, forgive, do something you believe in, etc.

Never stop learning just because you graduated from school with a certificate. There are many types of intelligence – like skills, talents, and informal education.  Life doesn't respect certificates. School rewards people for their caution and memory but Life rewards people for their imagination and daring. Never limit yourself to the classroom. The truth is, life requires much more than your ability to understand a concept, memorise it and reproduce it in an exam. Intelligence and excellence in life  is not limited to being able to memorise mind-numbing information and provide cut and paste answers thereof.

As Prof. Abletor Sedofia rightly put it “Academic excellence is overrated. Being top of your class does not necessarily guarantee that you will be at the top of life.” You could graduate as the best student in Finance but it doesn't mean you will make more money than everybody else. The best graduating Law student does not necessarily become the best lawyer.  School hails those who live by the rules. Life exalts those who break the rules and set new ones. So, am I saying people shouldn't study hard in school? Am I discouraging people from achieving highest marks in school?  Oh, no, you definitely should.  But don't sacrifice every other thing on the altar of your certificate. Don't limit yourself to the classroom. Do something practical. Take a leadership position. Start a business and fail. Join a club or start a club. Enter a contest and lose.  All these will teach you more about life and yourself much more than school could ever teach you.

There is more within you. You have what it talks to be a success just like anyone else.  Never let anyone make you feel inferior because you’re not as good academically as others. You have talents. You can learn new skills and you have what it takes to be innovative. Your best certificate you can have is your brain and ability to create your own reality. Don’t let the school system or certificate decide your fate.

Think less of becoming an excellent student but think more of becoming an excellent person.  Don’t make your certificates to become your everything.  Don't make the classroom to be your world but make the world your classroom. Forget your certificates!  Step forward, try business, try writing, try designing, try arts, try politics, try farming – try an extra thing. Try that thing you’ve always wanted to try.

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By Nicky Verd

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Monday 19 March 2018

I have a dream but I don’t know how to achieve it. What can I do?



It can be tempting to believe that change-makers whose work affects the world and impact generations are extra-extraordinary human beings. This is not only incorrect but it's also a threat to future innovation and dreamers.  This thinking prevents people with seeds of greatness and good ideas from getting started. The truth is that anyone can become truly great if they believe.

 “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” ~Eleanor Roosevelt

I have a dream but I don’t know how to achieve it. What can I do? 

I got this question from Nuishiadeh Rose. Thought I’ll answer openly for someone else to benefit too. Y’all are welcome to contribute your advice/opinions as well.

Actually, there’s no one person in the history of dreamers who knew exactly how to achieve their dreams from the get go. No one knows 100% what they're doing in the beginning but the dots always connect in the end. I am still figuring things out myself but nevertheless I’ve put myself out there. So, my advice is to start where you are with what you have. Don’t wait for the perfect time, the time will never be perfect. Don’t wait for others to validate your dream or buy into your dream, they may never do. You need to become your own source of inspiration and generate motivation and happiness that comes from within you.

C. JoyBell C put it beautifully, “I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it. Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight. And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to. But the miracle is in the unfolding of the wings. You may not know where you're going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings, the winds will carry you.” 

 “Do not wait; the time will never be ‘just right. Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.” ~George Herbert

“If I had to understand everything about connecting people before I began, I never would have started Facebook,"  says Mark Zuckerberg “Ideas don’t come out fully formed, they only become better as you work on them” What we know today as Facebook did not start as Facebook. The initial idea was to serve a group of students but today it’s serving the whole world.

To dream is to have faith, to achieve the dream is to exercise that faith. Now, what is faith? In biblical terms “faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not yet seen” In ordinary language faith is simply the believe that it will work out….without this belief, it might be impossible to take any action towards achieving your dream. 

The only people who know exactly how to achieve their dreams from the get go are employees. The plan is simple and its globally acceptable and applicable. “Go to school, get good grades and get a job”. Now, if your dream does not involve getting a job, then you’re pretty much on your own. You’ll have to figure things out by trying and errors. You’ll have to be willing to fail your way forward. You have to be willing to be misunderstood, misquoted, misjudge and even mocked. Anyone working on a big vision will get called crazy and all sorts of demeaning names. The world is harsh towards those who don’t follow the “system” but only those who break out of the systems do make history in the end.

Remember, the cost of not following your dreams is spending the rest of your life wishing you had. To achieve your dreams, you need to be brave enough to speak it. One reason many dreams never go anywhere is because the dreamer keeps it all to himself/herself. Dare to tell others about your dream and till will thrust you into action quicker as your reputation is on the line.

In a more practical way, If the dream is to go into sales or some sort of business, then start selling something even if it’s on street corners. If the dream is music or some sort of art – just sing, write songs, make art, practice, seek and attend auditions. If the dream is to be writer like myself, identify your genre and start writing – write from the heart and don’t worry about perfection. Your audience will connect with you and will love you for your authenticity. You’ll get better with time. 

“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” ~Michael Phelps

Keep in mind you need courage more than you need money. Overcoming fear will be your greatest victory. Fear of “what if” and fear of what will people say. If you are really serious about achieving that dream, you’ll have to look fear eye ball to eye ball and do it anyway. Overcome fear with faith, and with courage pursue the journey. They are no mistakes, only lessons and there’s no price tag on the experience you gain along the way as you keep trying.

“Aim for the moon. If you miss, you may hit a star.” ~W. Clement Stone

By Nicky Verd

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Tuesday 13 March 2018

I don't Play to Lose. The Tenacious Story of Carol Mhlauli




My name is Ntsapokazi Carol Mhlauli. I’m originally from Eastern Cape, in a small town called Butterworth, in South Africa. I came to Pretoria city in 2005. I have a BSC Hons in Computer Science. I am a brand strategist and a marketing consultant by profession. I worked for Telkom for so many years and I became a project Manager for Portfolio, Architecture and Innovation. I resigned from Telkom in 2013 to focus on my own business full time.

I have been a business focused marketer who enjoys bringing together analytical and creative thinking to solve problems? From general business strategy to brand building and marketing planning, I work directly with business owners to unlock growth by assessing the current state of the brand, the strategy, understand the target customer through research, analysis, internal company strengths, review competitor offerings, define the brand story, briefing and managing graphic design and consolidate brand guidelines.

I sit as an ex-officio and brand strategist on the boards of various Non- Profit organizations, Private Companies, Co-Operatives, business and startups to assist them build their strategy and their brand portfolios on an ongoing basis. I am currently based in Pretoria but travels wherever business takes me. That’s what I love doing.

I am also a member and a volunteer of the African Union Youth Commission in Addis Ababa and am actively involved in entrepreneurship Programmes across the African continent. 
I have participated in most of youth development programs in Ethiopia such as ICT week summit, African Solidarity Initiative under Peace and Security Initiative. I am an ex- Vice Chairperson of ICT Committee and Outreach. I dedicate my free time to mentoring and coaching young entrepreneurs to create sustainable long-term businesses and be better people for tomorrow.

How did it all start?

I had always had passion for business and I knew from a young age that I wanted to be an entrepreneur. My father was a farmer always selling vegetables from the farm, that’s where I drew my inspiration in business. In the early days when I was still an employee I used to sell second hand clothing from the boot of my car. I would travel to various places like Durban, Cape Town seeking new opportunities and buying new stock. I remember at one time sleeping in my car in South Beach because I didn’t have enough money to book a hotel but through it all God protected me and at some point, I thought that I would end up in retail because I knew a lot about retail business. But I am busy entering that field now with a new project from which am very excited about hopefully it will hit the shelves very soon.

The growing pains of being your own boss

If you're looking for a glamorous lifestyle, don't choose an entrepreneurial career path. Being an entrepreneur is the hardest thing I have ever done. Many people take time to judge us based on what they can see on the outside but forget the battles we fight on the inside.
I know it all. I have experienced some of the most hideous things ever. Painful and shameful things which have tested the integrity of my journey and should I have been timid, I wouldn't have any story to tell. The wind that blows and leave you with doubt and uncertainty of what is going to happen to you. I know what it means to not have a shelter over your head because you invested so much in your dreams and you willing to risk it all.

I know what it means not to have even R10.00 to buy data and follow up on prospective clients. I know what it means to order a glass of water in a restaurant because the last R20 you have is your last ticket to get you home. I know what it means to use cheap foundation make-up because you can't afford a full kit of BLACK-UP or ESTEE'LAUDER and all the other finer things women desire in life. I know what it means to delay response to your emails because you still hustling for a free wifi spot. I know what it means to be on Facebook free mode because you saving the little data you have for important messages and emails. I know what it means to use one handbag meeting after meeting because you can't afford to pick up the best quality bag you’ve always wanted. I know what it means to work in the lobbies and free spaces because you can't afford an office. I know it all.




I used to stand at robots in Pretoria and surroundings areas distributing my business flyers. At times I would bump into people I used to work with at Telkom. I tell you, it was not a nice feeling, but yhaaa...what can I say. The road to entrepreneurship is hard. I don't even want to think about my dress code at the time. I had lost my image but it was still me. I was simply paying the price for my dreams.

In the bible, the apostle Paul said; “I know how to be RICH and I know how to be POOR”. Being an entrepreneur is about embracing this text fully, these testing stages of life to see how far you can go. Your endurance is the ultimate key factor to determine whether you have the game or not. I kept the faith and I passed all my tests.

It's been a long road. Some of the lessons have been painful but they now define me. I always remind myself that things are not always as they seem. I enjoy Eckhart Tolle, who says, 'This too shall pass.” One must remember that it's possible to make the most of every situation. It's been a worthwhile journey and I have a great team working with me — it's our team that makes every day worthwhile. They're so loyal and supportive of each other and the brand — I admire each of them and feel so blessed that we came to work together; that our paths crossed.

With my wealth of experience in business, sales and marketing, customer service etc. I started my company Masazie Holdings Pty Ltd back in 2012. Masazie Holdings (Pty) Ltd has is an investment company even though we currently do import and export services in the field of grains, minerals and petroleum products. Our company is officially registered in Kenya,- Masazie Holdings Kenya Limited, in Zimbabwe- Masazie Commodities Pvt Ltd and have presence in many African countries like Zambia, Malawi, Botswana, DRC, Mozambique and Lesotho. I also founded 7 subsidiaries operating across South Africa in areas of Business Consulting, Corporate Branding, Driving Academy, Logistics, Mining, Properties, Vehicle parts, Petroleum.


When I first started my own business, I struggled a lot with securing startup capital from local banks and investors. I run out of money. I owed almost everyone I could think off. This is the problem for many entrepreneurs when first trying to establish a new business venture. “It’s the same old banking story – if you have no money they won’t give it to you; if you have money, they want to throw more at you. Nevertheless, when you believe in your dream you do whatever it takes to make it work. You don’t give up because banks don’t see what you see.

Women are entering business world in their numbers and are very resourceful. Nevertheless, they still need leaders and mentors to give them information about the facts. I have always believed that craftsmanship starts with conversation and my unique approach of connecting on a personal level with each individual customer is part of my winning formula. I thought I knew business because I successfully run various departments which ultimately achieved succeed and afforded me various spot light awards. I had skilled people in place, have an advisory board but I still failed until I got hold of a great Mentor who lifted my hand and my business changed drastically and am forever grateful, hence I encouraged people to be part of my mentorship programs.

The motivation for every person out there who aspire to be in business

Have these attributes of a lion – be tenacious, be courageous, be precise, be strategic and focus on the hunt. Success doesn't come easy. You have to fight for the meal and fight harder for the best meal and be prepared to seat in the table before your enemies,
knowing for a fact that NO enemy, no table!

Develop a strong work ethic, it goes a long way during your startup days in your journey. Also have self-disciple and the ability to say no to things that are not part of your journey. Focus on the ultimate goals.

My personal mantra for success is try “Try and try again. Once you’ve picked something that resonate as your passion, it must be all-encompassing. You have to stick to it. You will be met with challenges, good and bad, but the thing is to stay to the course and never give up”


I am Carol Mhlauli – I don't Play to Lose!
 


Social Media handles:
Instagram: Carol_Mhlauli
Business Page: Masazie Petroleum and Energy 
Email: networking@phamose.co.za



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