Your
value is on the inside. You are not
your mistakes. Having a bad past does not mean you will also have a bad future.
At some point everything that ought to happen will happen but you can edit
yourself, you can edit your reaction after the tsunami of life has crushed your
world to nothing but dust and debris. When stuff happened you can decide how to
react to it. You can decide whether trials make or break you. You cannot just
edit or crop out the not-so beautiful parts of life without facing them. What happened
in you is more important than what happened to you. Take a look at crayons, no matter how broken they are, they still color.
A well-known speaker
started off his seminar by holding up a R100 note. In the room of about 200
attendees. He asked, "Who would like this R100 note?" Hands started
going up. He said, "I am going to give this R100 to one of you - but
first, let me do this. He proceeded to crumple the R100 note up. He then asked.
"Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air. Well, he
replied, what if I do this? He dropped it on the floor and started trampling on
it with his shoe. He picked it up, crumpled, trampled and dirty. Now, who still
wants it? Still the hands went into the air. So, you see, no matter what he did
to the R100 note hands keep going up in the air in need of the money. Then he
said, friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson today. No matter
what I did to the money, you still wanted it. Why? Because it did not decrease
in value, it did not lose its value. It was still worth R100.
Many times in our
lives, we are dropped, crumpled and trampled on the ground by the
uncontrollable circumstances that come our way. At such moments, we feel as
though we are worthless but no matter what happened or what will happen, you
will never lose your value. A diamond does not lose its shine no matter how long it stays in the dark. Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth. Never allow yourself to be defined by someone else’s opinion. Dirty or
clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless, worthy and valuable to those who love you. Self-worth comes from within. Stop searching the world for treasures, the
real treasure is within you. "Broken crayons can still color".
This is An Excerpts From my Book, "More Than A Selfie - A guide to becoming Self-made in a selfie generation"
By Nicky Verd
By Nicky Verd
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